🎂 Sotonians milestones

Sweet of you to say bros but don’t worry about it srs. I dunno why I didn’t see it coming. Apparently this kind of thing is Quite Common, and it is well known fact that I am not allowed to have Nice Things, but somehow I was Surprised. I thought my genomes was made of more Hardy Stuff! When I was fetus you couldn’t terminate me with a pitchfork, I know for fact my mum Tried.

Hang in there my fine Ursine fellow. one consoilation is that this IS very common first time round, usually happens earlier so most dont even know they were pregnant… which is obviously less dramatic. Happpens for for a number of reasons including ‘trial run’ , as well as when things are not quite right. Baby Bears will happen one day so you wll have plenty of opportunity to teach them the dark ways. When it happens you will be glad.

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Mrs BTripz had several miscarriage before our first born and before the Twins arrived. I was gutted after the first one and learned to not tell anyone about pregnancies until well after the 3 months.

The girls have focussed our thoughts and it’s amazing how many babies don’t come to term or do with serious life issues. The fact that there are so many “normal” babies out there is incredible.

What fucks me right off is you see people like Kerry Katona that smoke, drink, whatever during pregnancy and deliver healthy babies to the world. Yet the people that do the “correct” things generally end up heart broken!!

I know you’re probably putting on a brave face @bearsy and I feel for you, please be a tad more sympathetic to Mrs Bear though :lou_is_a_flirt:

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Best stick that advert for wheelchair pusher back in the shop window bearsy.

:lou_sad:rip really.

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i saw that tokyos you bastard! This is Example why you need to visit more often!

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Just catching up on all this. Soz bear, that is shit. Happened to my mate and his mrs. 2nd time he hit the target was a success thou and their baby is due in a couple of weeks. Just keep pumping away and results will come.

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Sorry to here the news bear.

Bang goes the pub taxi service

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Suggestion from soviets…check the full thread before posting message of congrats.

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srs thou bear. I hope you sister is OK. This kind of thing can have a bigger effect on girls than bears. Make sure you are nice to her for a bit.

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I didn’t think I could feel sorrier for you than when you announced your Mrs was ‘accidentally’ pregnant, but it turns out I can :lou_sad:

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My niece has turned 18. Adult Unit #1 has turned 22, the “Taylor Swift year”.

Adult Unit #1 insists that Niece Adult Unit #1 “stole her birthday”.

I know the feeling…JFK had the temerity to be shot on my birthday…Fucker!

krGF has just booked our first house viewing.

It’s normal to start panicking uncontrollably about now, isn’t it?

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Oh yes. It’s also the start of being expected to take an interest in things you never imagined…like curtains. :lou_surprised:

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Christ, she gets annoyed when my response to “what do you want to watch” is “I dunno/whatever/don’t mind”.

This is going to be hell :lou_facepalm_2:

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Just keep saying…

Well we could go look in Laura Ashley for furniture/furnishings if you don’t fancy a trip to IKEA.

You’ll be fine.

You will get fed up with fvcking meatballs though

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Being trapped in Ikea with Ed Sheeran being pumped on loop is pretty much my idea of hell.

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I have never set foot in or otherwise visited an Ikea store or viewed an Ikea catalogue or visited an Ikea website…

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Oh lord, she’s only gone and booked another straight after.

This is all getting way out of hand already

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