Stand down, baby bear died already rip. Iâm glad I had enough sense / cowardice not to tell my Mum about the pregnancy, saves me a second embarrassing conversation. Iâm a little bummed bout it tho, considering I didnât want a Bearby in first place, but Iâd kind of got used to the idea. I was looking forward to fucking the little shit up by learning him all my despicable views on Life & Sex!
In general though I am too much of a Happy Soul to be touched deeply by this kind of thing. My initial thought, when bird started pissing out like a ketchup bottle was âeasy come easy goâ. What an awful way to react! Fortunately I was more diplomatic with the Mrs. She seems quite Upset, which shows a lack of foresight I think. Bad enough having one bro like me in your life. She came very close to having Two!
Mate, gutted for all concerned. These things do happen. Only consolation I can offer is that there is usually a good biological reason for it. Horrible whenever it happens, but much easier if it happens before things go too far.
Sweet of you to say bros but donât worry about it srs. I dunno why I didnât see it coming. Apparently this kind of thing is Quite Common, and it is well known fact that I am not allowed to have Nice Things, but somehow I was Surprised. I thought my genomes was made of more Hardy Stuff! When I was fetus you couldnât terminate me with a pitchfork, I know for fact my mum Tried.
Hang in there my fine Ursine fellow. one consoilation is that this IS very common first time round, usually happens earlier so most dont even know they were pregnant⌠which is obviously less dramatic. Happpens for for a number of reasons including âtrial runâ , as well as when things are not quite right. Baby Bears will happen one day so you wll have plenty of opportunity to teach them the dark ways. When it happens you will be glad.
Mrs BTripz had several miscarriage before our first born and before the Twins arrived. I was gutted after the first one and learned to not tell anyone about pregnancies until well after the 3 months.
The girls have focussed our thoughts and itâs amazing how many babies donât come to term or do with serious life issues. The fact that there are so many ânormalâ babies out there is incredible.
What fucks me right off is you see people like Kerry Katona that smoke, drink, whatever during pregnancy and deliver healthy babies to the world. Yet the people that do the âcorrectâ things generally end up heart broken!!
I know youâre probably putting on a brave face @bearsy and I feel for you, please be a tad more sympathetic to Mrs Bear though
Just catching up on all this. Soz bear, that is shit. Happened to my mate and his mrs. 2nd time he hit the target was a success thou and their baby is due in a couple of weeks. Just keep pumping away and results will come.