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I want to hear more about ‘mother’ Bletch

I think Pap, you have to accept that you simply ‘cant please all the people all the time’ - If posters get huge numbers of down votes and fuck off, well not sure changing things to keep them is the right way. On the langugae thing? Well I dont use it at home, or in front of children, but I like being able to feel comfortable to use very bad words for effect here… and yes there are better words, but I am not such a pretentious cunt to go dig them out to try and impress the scrotes on papweb :wink:

Maybe the change should be to show who is downvoting… why? because there is a difference betwen 1 person continually downvoting someone in a virtual stawking way, and loads of folks agreeing that something is in poor taste or out of order.

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1/ For the benefit of some of us dumbasses, can you smartarse cunts give the reason for the link on The Music Fred if it isn’t 110% bloody obvious.

2/ Not enough Top 3 or 5 lists of things, especially biscuits and crisps!!

3/ All in all not a bad effort.

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Originally posted by @Goatboy

Originally posted by @PhilippineSaint

It may be due to the fact that the people on here can’t be arsed to try and pick an internet fight at every opportunity and realise that if they do start one the likely hood of winning (actually achieving an outcome in their favour) is low.

Come over ere and say that.

Are you paying for my ticket to the Man City Beer fest then ?

:lou_facepalm_2: downvoted for? Some cunt’s got no balls

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Well it can’t be Phillipine Saints then … many of the “ladies” out there actually do have balls :wink:

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Maybe it was Lou ?

Are you calling Lou a cunt?

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not in so many words as that and it would be disrespectable to a female member

or does being a member make her male and maybe she does have balls

I am getting confused here now

Erica of Arabia how would you know that?

Originally posted by @pap

Originally posted by @Fatso

Someone wants to be a mod.

This is presently a mum and dad operation, in which bletch takes the role of responsible mother and I take the role of wayward reckless poster abusing father with a drink problem.

Sorry Pap but I must take exception, Bletch is a vainglorious, curmudgeonly old git.

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I read it in a book :innocent:

On the topic of females on here, I don’t think there are enough, so I’m thinking of doing a bit of multiposting (don’t tell Pap though) and opening an account as EricasLabia, and posting saucy little double entendres to get you all worked up. Should do my up voting a world of good and maybe Lou will make lezza moves on me via PM. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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Originally posted by @ericofarabia

1/ For the benefit of some of us dumbasses, can you smartarse cunts give the reason for the link on The Music Fred if it isn’t 110% bloody obvious.

I do not understand. I come from Barcelona. I learn English from a book.

Seriously, though, is this about posting YouTube vids? Via phone/tablet/what? Let us know and we’ll try to sort you out.

2/ Not enough Top 3 or 5 lists of things, especially biscuits and crisps!!

Well, here’s the thing. I can’t really countenance doing a top 3 or top 5 of things, because that’s really the UI’s thing, and I don’t want to step on Nick’s toes. What we can do is nick the general concept, retool it a bit, and pretend the idea was ours in the first place. I probably shouldn’t have said that out loud.

Anyway. It’s a great idea, but I’ve taken the liberty of putting a Sotonians spin on it. I’ve created two new sub-categories under “Sotonians position on…

Introducing “Best Ever” and “Worst Ever”. You can see them on the categories page immediately and also create new posts in either. They’ll show up in the sidebar in a bit. And I suppose if you can’t pick just one, 3 or 5 or more choices would be acceptable. Why limit yourself? :lou_wink_2:

If they take off, does sir fancy a “Plunder of Uiarabia Badge”? :lou_sunglasses:

3/ All in all not a bad effort.

Thanks. Hasn’t always been smooth sailing, there’s still room to do a lot more, but as this incarnation of Sotonians (we had a mailing list, back in the early 2000s - I was very glad to get the domains back) hits its first birthday, I am generally very happy with what it is, and the community we’ve got.

Top fucking effort, all.

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Originally posted by @TheCholulaKid

I think you might have too much time on your hands, JS.

Too true. Been sat around for most of the afternoon with fuck all to do after a meeting was cancelled. :lou_eyes_to_sky:

No Hants cricket Championship game to keep me occupied either, or I’d have been busy in another thread calling Tom Alsop a useless cunt.

Originally posted by @Fatso

Someone wants to be a mod.

Haha, far from it. I love that we simply don’t need any here. (sorry Bletch, not that you’re irrelevant or anything). :lou_wink_2:

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Originally posted by @pap

Originally posted by @ericofarabia

1/ For the benefit of some of us dumbasses, can you smartarse cunts give the reason for the link on The Music Fred if it isn’t 110% bloody obvious.

I do not understand. I come from Barcelona. I learn English from a book.

Seriously, though, is this about posting YouTube vids? Via phone/tablet/what? Let us know and we’ll try to sort you out

Nothing you can do Pap, unless you impose a Down Vote Injunction on people who post on The Sotonians Music Chain Thread!! Some of the Links, nay, many many of The Links in the Chain are beyond my comprehension, although I sometimes think that there really isn’t a Link at all, and it’s like The Emperors New Clothes, and nobody has the balls to say Oi whats the link then cuntyface!!

The Top 3/5 bit was all tongue in cheek, but if The Best / Worst Ever idea is a success, I will of course only be too glad to take credit for it :wink:

Cheers.

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Originally posted by @ericofarabia

The Top 3/5 bit was all tongue in cheek, but if The Best / Worst Ever idea is a success, I will of course only be too glad to take credit for it :wink:

Yeah, but they’re very decent icebreakers, and I’ll reckon we’ll get slightly wankier answers :lou_sunglasses:

Better answers. That is of course what I meant.

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Originally posted by @pap

The text editor is an off-the-shelf jobbie, so we can probably get some improvements there by just upgrading. Preview is definitely do-able, even if it has to be custom developed.

Good to hear. Shall look forward to it.

Originally posted by @pap

Forum-wise, I’d like a bit more poster retention. We’ve got loads of the old crowd that have signed up, said hello and disappeared into the ether. I’m glad they’ve got accounts, like - but it’d be nice to see them around a bit more.

And also I’ve noticed, some that did used to post a lot, that have also disappeared. Whatever happened to Ohio? Was a poster I liked from ‘the other place’, but seems to have vanished from here.

Also Halo Stickman. Nice guy, and was glad to see he was here, but shortly after my arrival, he hasn’t posted for weeks and weeks now. I’m beginning to take it personally. :lou_sad:

Originally posted by @pap

However, I’ve also seen (through the admin panel) people that have got a load of downvotes and sworn off the place too, so voting may not necessarily be the self-moderating panacea Jack has painted it as. I definitely think it does more good than ill, though.

Ah, a shame to hear. I just haven’t seen any of that myself, and can only go on what I do see. If that was actual ‘targetting’ of a particular person unjustly, then not good, but I’d find it surprising. Perhaps simply that a lot of people didn’t like the things they were posting, and ‘the forum spoke’ with its votes?

Originally posted by @pap

There are two other huge constraints. First, it’s the choice to allow really bad language. Some people have plenty of answers to Cartman’s brilliant question “What’s the big fucking deal, bitch?”. “It’s rude. I don’t like it. You can use better words, y’know.” Fuck 'em. If it’s good enough for RAWK, we can do it too.

Tis another good thing for me. Airs and graces are welcome and fine if you want to use them, but so is making use of the wonderful word ‘cunt’ if I want to use that too. It is a powerful and expressive word, and I do not like to have unnecessary restrictions placed upon my vocabulary. :lou_wink_2:

Originally posted by Bletch

Jack, fuck off you creep.

Thanks Bletch. It’s always an honour to be insulted by a legend such as yourself.

Cunt.

Haha, I was obviously conscious of the ‘creep’ effect of my post, but I do strongly believe in the power of encouragement. I’ve known so many people in my life that only ever tell you when you’re doing something wrong. Too seldom are we actually thanked for providing a valuable service, because that is simply what has become expected of us in doing our jobs. We’re quick to slate people when they fuck up, and yet reticent to offer praise when they do something well.

End of the day, I don’t really care if it sounds ‘sucky’, I like to give credit where I feel it is due.

Originally posted by Bletch

No offence to Mr. Bulsara, but I think having him around and not having everyone either leave or lynch him means something is working.

Exactly, and Bazza is a great example of what I mean. In some of the “reasonably serious discussions” we have, I’ve noticed poor Baz takes a fair few down-votes for his confrontational debating style. But it is a content issue. In another more lighthearted topic on the page, I’ll see that he still gets a fair share of up-votes as appropriate. If that was ‘other forums’ he’d have been written off already, and not received those points just because of who he is, rather than the content of his post. That for me shows that the system here is working well as it should. Playing the ball, and not the man.

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What we need is a top 5 Top 5 Thread requests.

Alas Eric and his Performing Labia’s effort in this thread wouldn’t even make it to number 6.

Top 5 Geography Teachers you had…

  1. Mr Clements

2)…

Also, while I’m on the subject, what would ruin the music chain thread for me would be for people to explain the connection.

I s’pose you could couch it in SPOILER warnings. I s’pose.

… and as for this site not needing moderation.

I work tirelessly pulling strings behind the scenes.

I’m Didier Deschamps’ water carrier to pap’s Cantona genius.

… Aw fuck… it’s a fair cop.

I’ve moderated one discussion on here (I think - perhaps two), and now Verbal/Furball is no more (RIP), I just go to the beach (Stokes Bay).

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Originally posted by @Jack-Schitt

Originally posted by @pap

The text editor is an off-the-shelf jobbie, so we can probably get some improvements there by just upgrading. Preview is definitely do-able, even if it has to be custom developed.

Good to hear. Shall look forward to it.

And yet you still manage to multi-quote in one post, as Harry would say “he’s a top, top poster”

Originally posted by @pap

Forum-wise, I’d like a bit more poster retention. We’ve got loads of the old crowd that have signed up, said hello and disappeared into the ether. I’m glad they’ve got accounts, like - but it’d be nice to see them around a bit more.

And also I’ve noticed, some that did used to post a lot, that have also disappeared. Whatever happened to Ohio? Was a poster I liked from ‘the other place’, but seems to have vanished from here.

Also Halo Stickman. Nice guy, and was glad to see he was here, but shortly after my arrival, he hasn’t posted for weeks and weeks now. I’m beginning to take it personally. :lou_sad:

Ah, now you’ve let the cat out of the bag!! Are you Halo in disguise?

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Originally posted by @Jack-Schitt

And also I’ve noticed, some that did used to post a lot, that have also disappeared. Whatever happened to Ohio? Was a poster I liked from ‘the other place’, but seems to have vanished from here.

Ohio’s a decent fella, but probably got a bit too much crap in the early days, when we were deciding on what sort of site we’d be. On one hand, we had ladies kicking around with some fairly strong opinions on the depiction and treatment of females (and so they should be). On the other, we had boob-obsessed Ohio (and so he should be) talking about boobs a lot.

Also Halo Stickman. Nice guy, and was glad to see he was here, but shortly after my arrival, he hasn’t posted for weeks and weeks now. I’m beginning to take it personally. :lou_sad:

Yeah, Halo is awesome. Think his absence is probably more down to me, and the force of my left wing opinions, than owt else. I could be corrected on that issue, think it’s probably a shame that we’ve never met in person (easy for someone who never has to get the impression I’m a ball of rage at times).

Ah, a shame to hear. I just haven’t seen any of that myself, and can only go on what I do see. If that was actual ‘targetting’ of a particular person unjustly, then not good, but I’d find it surprising. Perhaps simply that a lot of people didn’t like the things they were posting, and ‘the forum spoke’ with its votes?

Happened a couple of times. We don’t see much of JBoy these days (also an excellent nipper). In one of his last posts, he had a proper go at Cherts and got a few downvotes. I can see why he got the downvotes; it wasn’t very “Sotonians” but it was very JBoy. He should make his way back, although I think he likes doing the cutting remark thing over there a bit too much.

Downvoting is a weird old thing really. While I quite like to use it when someone just starts being plain insulting (better than kicking off yourself), I’ve never been the recipient of a ton of downvotes on a single post myself. I don’t like seeing it when people simply have a difference of opinion. I wonder if the downvote has a future here.

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It’s a great forum, after all how many other forums round the world pay for your lunch?

But tbh, there is one black mark.

Not enough discussions about Golf.

Especially as Tiger has now entered the US Open and is on his comeback trail.

Did I ever tell the story of how he nearly bought Saints???

:lou_sunglasses:

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